#4 "The Dead Communicate With Her!"

Many of us wonder if the dead really communicate with the living especially in human beings. Some people says that its not true and some says it is. But before anything else, what is dead by way? So,for me, dead is a thing which no longer exist or living in the world. So maybe, that's why a lot of people do not believe that dead communicate with the living because they can think that dead is not existing so why would it communicate with us? On the other hand, do you believe that the dead communicate with the living? Why? Or why not?

As for me, I do believe that the dead really communicate with the living even though I didn't experience yet because based on our neighborhood, her family and herself encountered to communicate with the dead. The dead communicate with them every night between 8pm to 11pm in their house. So usually every 8pm, the fluorescent bulb in their room with her sister and cousin will blink and sometimes will turn off and on though there's nobody else with them in the room. So they feel scared and wondering why it happens. They ask each other, "Did you turn off then on the light? Why you scaring us?" Then the others will reply, "No, I didn't do it. Why would I? I don't like scaring someone especially myself." Starting that they feel afraid but they bear in their mind that maybe the fluorescent bulb which has a problem. So, the next day it happens again. So they got more afraid. They talk to the dead politely then the dead will reply in a way that she will move the things around them especially the door. Sometimes also the dead will cry sitting on the stairs. Yet, the most scariest part is when the dead which is a White Lady shows to one of our neighbor. Her name is Samsia Elias. She feels really scared and she can't sleep well every night. And when she asks her family about what happen, they said she was played by the dead badly because that White Lady always shows to her already. Thanks to GOD it stopped at this moment. Also some of our neighbors told us that they also saw that White Lady on Samsia's house at their rooftop. That's why I believe on Samsia because not only her who saw and can communicate with the dead but others also can do. From that on, she learned that the dead really communicate with the living especially to us human.

Therefore, though I didn't encounter like this which is communicating with the dead, I still believe that the dead communicate to the living. Dead will communicate to us in a many ways such as in psychic they communicate to the dead that they can talk each other or having a conversation. However, to us ordinary people can communicate with them in a way that they only show to us then disappear quickly. They just give a sign and sometimes they use a thing to say that they are there and saying something to us that they need a help to fix something. So, when the dead tries to communicate with you, don't be afraid because dead can't harm us unlike living because they're just rooming around and watching what we're doing.

#3 "I Stop To Say Thank You: Mama and Papa"

Our family is the most precious thing that we only have and should take care of and give value for our entire life. We should not waste the time we have with our family because without a family we are not doing our very best to pursue what we are at present and to continue living in the world. In addition, in the family only you can feel that you are not aloof and there's still a person who value and loves you. Because sometime, someday our regrets will always occur at the last which you could not go back just to fix the wrong things you've done. But, do you think people of nowadays are valuing there family as well as their parents? How might do they show that they value their parents a lot as much as the value of parents they show to their children?

So, in my opinion, people value their family these days only quite. They don't even have enough time to spend with their family. Why? Because as I observed in our surroundings especially in our community, some of our neighborhood is not organized, not helping one another, and they don't even care the side of their neighbor. In fact, one of our neighbor's family, the wife and husband were always fighting so their son is the most affected because he was sometimes blamed by his father of something wrong which he does not commit. I also observed from the news I watch in the TV, most of the celebrity couples got easily separated because of misunderstanding maybe yet they must fight and save their relationships in order their family to be complete and live with love and peace. They don't even care if their family would be broken and infact, yes, there are many family in the Philippines are in broken family. And of course, that's why many teenage of today got rebellious to their parents.

However, we can fight and surpass this things because for me, it's just a struggles and difficulties that we have to encounter since it is the way that GOD above gives to us and serves as our challenges just to strengthen our self and especially our faith and believe in GOD. So, I would really give my value to my parents like for instance 10 years from now by showing to them that though I'm very busy on my work for example or if ever I have my own family is I would still communicate with them despite on hindrances will come. I will help my parents in terms of expenses in their daily needs in life so I will be the one to sustain and support them by giving them somehow a money which is deeply come from my heart. And I will lend a time if I got an extra money to treat my parents and my family as well a bonding moment in a nice place which there's no destruction and we can spent our time peacefully and enjoyable so that we can talk each other and share our experiences with our new life if we're still okay or not.

Therefore, we should not forget to say thank you to our beloved parents for the sacrifices they have done and the heartaches they got just to raise us and give us a better future someday. So, we can say thank you to our parents in many ways by simply saying thank you to them in personal but mean the single word you say so that our parents would be happy and appreciate it. Or if you are not confident enough and shy to face your parents in person , we can use a writing strategy. Write all the feelings you want them to know and share, then give it to them so like me, I'm shy to tell them thank you and I love you in person but I'm showing it through my actions that I am very thankful that they are my parents. So now I'm grabbing this opportunity to say thank you: mama and papa for everything you've done for me and for my sisters and brothers also. I really love you both. Because of your guidance we've realized that why were you doing all of that because it's for our own sake and I learned what the true life is.